8.04.2009

Blog Negativity+a little positivity!

I don't want to dwell on this for too long, but wanted to say a few things. First off, I love blogging and reading other people's blogs. The blogland has become very small and everyone seems connected to someone somehow. I love reading other people's blogs because I get an insight to other people's thoughts and feelings, good and bad. I love that there are other mommies out there who share my same beliefs. I have noticed that alot of the blogs I read are going private due to lurkers and people saying mean things via comments or E-mails. I don't understand why people take the time to write mean and nasty things by way of comment. It makes no sense to me!!
About a week ago, I recieved an Email from a woman who was upset over my blog. MY blog! I mean, I was shocked. I don't even have that many people who read my little blog. She was upset because I complained too much. I was so mad. She basically said I should be more grateful that I have three kids. I am so super blessed. I know I am. I don't think I complain too much. I blog to write what I am thinking, whether good or bad. And there are lots of things I would like to write about, but I don't. I decided not to respond and I let it go. I prayed about it and I let it go. I almost quit blogging, but I realized I can't defend what I write. I decided it wasn't worth my time to be mad about!!

Anyways, for the few people who read this blog, I love you guys and thanks for saying sweet and happy things!!!

I am sorta sad...my baby is turning 5 tomorrow and I realized I haven't had a baby in 5 years and started thinking I needed one!!! What am I going to do when he starts kindergarten in a couple of weeks? And speaking of that....I know, I ony have three...BUT it sounds so weird to say that I have a kindergartner, a first grader, and a second grader! And to think I want another baby. I am not really sure if I want another baby or not, I am praying about it. I know that it's in God's hands. But seriously, ya'll I was thinking about baby names today. I am a little goofy....my life is already pure chaos. But I really love it. Camden watched My Big Redneck wedding a while back and saw a deer cake and really wanted one. He has been bugging me about it for months. He LOVES hunting and being in the woods like any little five year old Arkansas boy. :) So, I have ordered a deer head. Red Velvet, his fave. (And it looks like blood.) And it will have red bavarian creme in the middle. Gooey blood. I so know you are looking forward to the pictures!! We are going to celebrate Friday night so you will have to wait. And bless his heart, tomorrow on his B-day, we are going to get his 5 year old shots. It was the only time I could do it. He may hate me!!!

Good night ya'll!!








6 comments:

Tiffany said...

Buhaha - the deer head cake! That is great - you are one cool Mama!!
And that stinks about the rude email. Ignore it. Everyday as a mommy isn't sunlight and sprinkles, and it is good to be authentic. Be blessed.

Allison said...

Whatever! I can't believe someone emailed you that! so stupid!

I've had MANY BAD days. My life isn't as wonderful as my blog makes it appear. :)

Mrs. Bismarck said...

hope that chica doesn't visit my blog, all i have been doing is griping here lately...

deer cake: HILARIOUS!

i think i might start visiting random blogs just to make mean comments. i think that would brighten my day (just kidding, for everyone who doens't know my sarcasm)

Sonya said...

This is my first visit to your blog but you write whatever you want to write and don't let the haters get to you!!

Courtney said...

Um, wow...I can't believe someone would actually complain about your blog! THat's ridiculous. Some people have nothing to do but make other people feel bad. I loves you and your blog just the way ya'll are!! :)

Courtney said...

Um, wow...I can't believe someone would actually complain about your blog! THat's ridiculous. Some people have nothing to do but make other people feel bad. I loves you and your blog just the way ya'll are!! :)

"We can cry with hope, we can grieve with hope, because we believe with hope.."